What NOT to Mix in Life
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We are always told what to do, what action to take, what book we should read, what organization we should join, etc. The advice is out there in a big way should you choose to seek its word. I’d like to take a different approach and discuss some things in life that should not be mixed – and you will be a better person and most likely more successful by doing so.
This list by all means should be bigger – so if I capture your attention – tell me if you agree or disagree and I want to know what should be added from your perspective.
Don’t Mix – Drinking & Driving.
This is probably a no brainer for most of you and not even remotely an issue, but for certain people it’s most definitely a problem. I’m a bit younger and know that it happens all the time – and it happens in your town as well as mine. So drink as you wish, but don’t ever get your car keys involved.
Don’t Mix – Money & Emotion.
Not an easy one to really grasp – but it applies to everybody. It’s simple, do not make rash financial decisions based on your emotions. When decisions are based on emotions – rationality tends to escape you. I often use the old rule, wait one week and see how you feel about that same decision – reducing emotions impact and allowing you to make a grounded decision.
Don’t Mix – Dishonesty & your Career.
Who am I kidding, this should say “dishonesty and life” right? Not so fast, that’s a bit too generic to swallow and take from. Your job, profession, career – whatever it is that you do for a living – maintain an underlying principle of integrity and honesty. Your job is no different than life – there are tough times, there is bad news, there are people that you don’t like and people that might not like you – but being honest and true to yourself will pay dividends now and for a long time to come. Being dishonest and hoping that someone, like your boss, doesn’t find out is no way to go about your business – and is quite unprofessional. So, it’s not always easy, when things get sticky or you have to deliver bad news just stick to your guns, be yourself and be honest.
Don’t Mix – Negativity & Action Assessment
Due to the weak title of this last one, I owe you a bit of an explanation. Anytime your mind escapes to pondering taking action on a dream, a conflict, any decision in your life where you are considering and evaluating options – keep negativity far far away. You hear it time after time – “can’t” should simply not be a word that you use when it’s a matter of your abilities or doing something you know is challenging, something that might require a lot of hard work and dedication. Your attitude and frame of mind are consequently critical to the decisions you make and the ultimate direction of your life.
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What up!
very good and pratical. A very good reminder to stay focused and live well.
Thank you Mary – You are officially the first person to comment on my blog! I enjoyed reading your site as well…
This is a nice and interesting post.
Keep it up.
Samit
Samit,
Thanks for your comment and encouragement!
Mike
“Don’t Mix – Negativity & Action Assessment”
I’m trying to give myself this speech on a daily basis, because I need to make a life changing decision. In the past, I was bolder and younger. Now, with the economy so rough and just a small bit of change in the bank, I’m not so brave. That bothers me a lot, because I really need to cease working where I do. How do you get around having to have income to make it?
Your site is very spot on. Very ‘inspirational.’ You’ve given me more to think about.
Hi Dee,
I’ve found out from experience – it definitely helps to remind yourself everyday – and preferably when you wake up in the morning and before you fall asleep at night.
I hope things are better at your job. That can be a frustrating thing. It’s important to keep things in perspective – and know that if you work on yourself – you’ll discover something else that makes you happier and that can also pay the bills.
Good luck!
Appreciate the compliment.
Mike